Sunday, April 29, 2007

No sympathy flowers for me!

Some people request to have no flowers at there funeral. Especially if maybe the family need help with paying for the funeral service instead of spending money on sympathy flowers they ask everyone to give a donation. If you know of someone who did not like flowers than there is no reason to bring them flowers not. If this is the request of the family then the funeral director should contact the florist in that area to let them know incase someone comes in the order flowers.


Another reaseon someone make not want any sympathy flowers is because they want there flowers while they are still living. They can't enjoy them when they are dead and gone. Peolple feel as if that is a waste of money to buy sympathy flowers for the deceased. So it is very important to include this when making out your prefuneral arrangements and to let your family know if this is what you request.

The new trend of sympathy flowers

Actually there is no special sympathy flower that is use for a funeral or to give to the loves ones left behind. People sometimes gives plants that they have grown themselves if they know it was something that the person like. Some even set out plants at the grave site. Women and men funerals have flowers so we have to think about the sympathy flowers to represent both. For the man, a tribute of incorpating branches and natural materials could be considered. If the person was a gardener then you would have a larger selection to chose from. A fresh cut of flowers would make a beautiful sympathy arrangement. For something will last a long time try sending some greenery vines, or small trees like the miniature rose flowers bush, some they can sit out in the yard or there gardens to remember there love one and you. If you would like to add your special touch to your sympathy flowers be sure to tell the florist or bring your special gift and let he florist make your flower arrangement to fit the gift in.

Odering Sympathy Flowers

Some people are not familiar with th terms that some florist use when having to order the sympathy flowers from over the phone. If you were at th florist and could see other sympathy flowers it would be no problem. The most commonly used terms are Wreath, is a floral arrangement design like a circle and is put on a stand. The shape of a circle represents eternal life. The spray is a sympathy flower arrangement design for viewing one side only and can be place on an easel or on the top of the casket. The floral arrangement is a mix of flowers displayed in a basket, vase or other container. Sympathy flowers can also be place inside of the casket. Examples of a sympathy flower inside the casket is a satin heart, nosegay, or small spray.Ask your florist for details about the vareity of options available in floral sympathy flowers or arrangements. Maybe if you are out of town see if they have a web page you can see the different sympathy flowers or arrangements.

Thursday, April 5, 2007

Burial Arrangement

Burial arrangement do not have to made after your you or your love one has pass on. It is a good idea to go ahead and plan this day. Alot of people do not like to even talk about it. But is it something we all have to do one day or another. So take some of the burden off of your love one and have this done. Some funeral homes offer different plans for burial. For instance, if you want a certian type of casket, how long you want to stay out before the burial day. Some people can only be held out for a number of days. White american cannot be held out for a long period of time (3 to 4 days) where as an African american can be held out a longer period of time (7 to 10 days). This will depend on the condition of your body at the tiem of death. Most african american funerals is larger, the family want limisouine to carry to family members to the church, to the cemetary and back home. There are obituaries that is given out the family members and friends, which includes the program of the funeral services. The flowers and cards which come from other friends perhaps who was unable to attend the services are read out during the services. This is alot for someone who is in sympathy to get together for a burial arrangement. When you decide which funeral home you would like to handle your burial arrangement set up an appointment with them to start working on your arrangement. Keep a copy of this for any changes you can have them with you. Also, if you are marry your spouse should be included in this burial arrangement to keep any confusion from arriving later. Also you can have this approved by a lawyer if you have a will in place put this information in your will. You may want to even send a copy to your insurance company and/or place this with your insurance policy. Remember whatever you choose and decide to change you will need to go over this same
procedure again.

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

Thursday, March 15, 2007

Sympathy Cards

Sometimes you can not afford to buy a sympathy flower will someone is ill and a lost of a love one or friend. Now there are so many different sympathy cards with different designs texture and even the cards that sings. To may a card a special one try making it our self. I know you have heard about scrape booking well try scrap carding. Using some material that you make have around the house like an gift bag, old flowers, cloth, a shoebox, colors maker, even a pizza cutter. Place all your material together to see what matches your idea or something that you know the person you are making the card likes. Do not clue anything permanently until you have the card like you want it. First you want to write down all the encouraging words, and/or expression you want to use(if you can't think of anything who want to say look at some old cards and cut out the words and use some old books, magazine, newspaper) this will add some different texture of print on your card. The more work you put in this card the better you feel when you deliver it to that person. The shoebox can be used to actually make the card so you can attach your work on it. Use the different types of cloth to cut out designs like hearts, flowers, trees etc. The pizza cutter can cut a window in the card or an design on the edge of a card. Old flower can be torn apart and put in a design, shape or use to decorate the outside of a card. This is just some of the ways you can save, money but express the way your feel.

Friday, March 2, 2007

Sympathy Flowers and Casket design

Casket is something we don't like to talk about. We should consider picking out our own design and style. Casket comes in alot of different colors with special features inside such as the praying hands, a dove, Jesus. What about having your own with maybe a picture or some thing written. If you love one is near death or just wants to make funeral arrangements early because no one knows where death is, lets considered the flowers that they may want to use. A wreath similizes life enternal because it is made in a circle. The wreath can have any kind of flower that you or your love likes. Also try adding a picture or a stuff animal if you have a favor. A spray which is usually place on an easel it used for a one side view. Inside flowers (inside the casket) can be a type of flower that you or your love ones loved the most. If they are not a flower lovers try using some other type of arrangement to sit or stand around the casket. The most important sympathy flower to chose is the casket spray this is the flower that sits on top of the casket. The casket spray is pick out by the family or it can be pick out my your love one ahead of time. Also try adding designs to the casket such drawing. If you know a real good artist have them to put a scipture from the bible or a song. If example, if your love one loved a grapes have the artist to add some grapes on the casket. You want that thime to me very special just as your love one who God has called home. After everything it all over, no more planning, and reality sets in try sending the love one a live flower arrangement to help uplift there spirit of all the decision planning, preparing for the funeral of there love one. Let them know you are thinking of them. They can have the live plant to help ease there mind of the loss. Then include a note with "I'm only a call away" or something to let them know they have your support

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

sympathy flowers arrangements

Sympathy flowers can also be a flower arrangement for the a person home. The person can have an everlasting momument of the a person thoughts will they were ill or during the time of there loss. A beautiful table arrangement will be an great idea. If you know the person taste of flowers or the colors they prefer. Alternating the arrangement with a crystal vase or candles with a sweet fragance. Specialize this design by making this arrangement yourself . Visit the nearest flowershop or hobby store to find the flowers and any centerpiece to get started today.

Saturday, February 3, 2007

"Sympathy Flowers

“Sympathy Flowers”

Sympathy flowers are a tribute to life of someone that has passed on. Sympathy flowers can also be for the loves ones of the person, who is in bereavement, sympathy flowers can consist of a floral arrangement a live arrangement or an artificial arrangement appropriate to send to the funeral home.
Sympathy flowers consist of any kind of flowers, such as rose’s carnations, etc. These arrangements can be in a pot, vase or a casket spray. Flowers can give a person a lasting tribute to the family, when some one it in sympathy. Live plants will give the family a long lasting memorial of their love one. You can tend to and nourish the plants this will occupy your time you use to spend with that love one has gone on. Live plants come in a number of styles the most popular is the lily or the rubber plant, or a running green vine also rose brushes is a great sympathy flower to give. Rose brush can be planted outside to use as a decorating flower in your home. When the rose blooms it represents a new life. Also you can cut the new roses to take to that loves grave or to give to someone else who is sick or in the hospital.
For a calming effect for that person that is in bereavement try giving sympathy flowers in the color of blue, because this represents calm sea or sky.
If your love one was someone who liked the outside then think about the live brushes or plants in a wooden basket or a clay pot.
Sympathy flowers can also brighten someone day by using colors of bold and bright colors.
To honor a beautiful life sympathy flowers is thoughtful and a way to say “I miss you” or “I was thinking of you”.

Tuesday, January 30, 2007